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Resources for Single People Who Like Being Single

Books, blogs, videos, podcasts, discussion groups, advocacy groups, academic resources, and practical help

Bella DePaulo
4 min readDec 4, 2022
Photo by Gaelle Marcel on Unsplash

Search for resources for single people and you will probably be inundated with advice for becoming unsingle. That ends here! For years, I have been putting together resources for unapologetically single people — those who want to embrace their single lives, and are not whining about being single or trying to escape into coupledom.

Here you will find collections of books, blogs, talks, podcasts, discussion groups, advocacy groups, academic writings, practical resources, and more. I had already created collections of books, talks, blogs, and writings on many different topics; they are at the top of this post, with just one link for each to the relevant collection. Entries into the other categories are collected here for the first time; they come next.

I know there are many more resources that could be added to each category. Maybe there are some other categories that could be added, too. Feel free to add your suggestions.

BOOKS

Badass Single People: 63 Books for You

Well, there were 63 when I first posted this at Medium. I have updated it since and will continue to do so.

TALKS

Unapologetically Single? Here are the Best TED Talks for You

Not all of them are TED talks. If I found a singles-relevant talk I liked, I included it.

BLOGS

A list of blogs about single life

Blogs, newsletters, and such.

WRITINGS ON MANY DIFFERENT TOPICS RELEVANT TO SINGLE PEOPLE

What we really know about single life

Most of the writings are mine, but some guest posts from other people are included, too. There are more writings by other scholars under ACADEMIC RESOURCES, below.

ONLINE DISCUSSION GROUPS AND OTHER GROUPS

Aging Alone

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Bella DePaulo
Bella DePaulo

Written by Bella DePaulo

“America’s foremost thinker and writer on the single experience,” according to the Atlantic. SINGLE AT HEART book is a gold medal winner. www.belladepaulo.com

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