Single in a Pandemic: 18 Reflections at the 1-Year Mark
There is no one story of what it means to be single during a pandemic. Here are 18 accounts.
Some single people have been having a hard time during the pandemic. I get that. But I also became frustrated with the stories in the media that seemed to suggest that all single people have felt devastated during the past year. So I set out to collect other kinds of pandemic stories and write a few of my own (here and here).
When I asked single people to share their stories with me, they were very generous, often responding in great detail. I’m relating just snippets of what 18 people told me — enough, I hope, to give you a sense of their thoughtfulness and of the many ways that single life has been experienced during the pandemic that are not wholly negative.
I’m identifying the contributors in the ways they described themselves. That’s why there is variation in whether their real name or full name is used, whether there is a title or a reference to sexual orientation or gender identity, whether there is a picture, and the specificity of the place where they live. I thank all of them for sharing their experiences.
1. Alice
2. Sonya Ashby
