What Do People Really Think of You When You Dine Alone?

Alone in public: How you think you will feel, how you actually feel, and how people judge you

A clueless, smug person tried to throw shade at a solo diner, and wow, she had no idea what she was about to set in motion! The target of the attempted disparagement, @HarrietSmallies, tweeted this about her experience:

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“America’s foremost thinker and writer on the single experience,” according to the Atlantic. Author of “Singled Out.” Harvard PhD www.belladepaulo.com

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Bella DePaulo

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“America’s foremost thinker and writer on the single experience,” according to the Atlantic. Author of “Singled Out.” Harvard PhD www.belladepaulo.com

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