Yes, I remember that you participated and wrote some wonderful answers. I am so very grateful to you! I also totally get what you are talking about with regard to the reactions you get. I wrote about some of that here: https://belladepaulo.medium.com/people-get-all-weird-if-you-tell-them-you-chose-to-be-single-why-c5c2353d3238?sk=c7ed9b7b24909966bf82f2f0ed5ab628